"We are an ongoing story"
"All of us are a story. It is not that we have a story. We are an ongoing story."
(Michael Warren, Touching the stories of young people, New Catholic World, March/April 1979, quoted in Story Art, July 1986).
I have recently become the editor of Story Art, the quarterly journal of the National Story League. I've only been a member of the National Story League for about two years, so I've been reading back issues to learn more about the organization and its publication. Story Art has been published for more than 70 years, so I've had a lot of catching up to do!
I think about stories everyday -- my own story, your story, the stories of people I meet, the stories of places I visit, the stories of times gone by, the stories of things to come, the stories of people and places I don't yet know. It's natural for me; I see connections everywhere. But I didn't realize it until I came across the quote referenced above. Here's the whole quote:
"All of us are a story. It is not that we have a story. We are an ongoing story. When we forget this, our life becomes a series of unconnected events, connected only in the sense that they all happened to us. But when each of us gets a sense of our own history, there is a whole different quality to the events of our lives . . . we have a sense that we have come from somewhere and are going somewhere in life. We find a sense of direction."
Good stuff! This quote was included in an article about sharing family history with kids. More about that later.








Comments
Some days I'm a mystery . . .
Some days I'm a comedy, and some days are truly dramatic. But the favorite parts of my story are when it's boring! Births, Weddings, Funerals - all good stuff. However, it's that in-between stuff, the everyday ebb and flow, that give life its true rhythm and beauty.
This is where the concept of our "dash" - the whole of our life, represented by the dash between our birth and death dates on a tombstone - comes into play. That precious dash contains so much unique information, and the bulk of it is just ordinary stuff. Life is good!
When I feel life is "happening to me," I know I'm in trouble. I pull back as much as I can and sit still to find my center again.
I really like Erin's idea of ending each day with " . . . to be continued . . ." Anne H.
I like it
I like the quote. I will remember at the end of the day to place a little sign around my neck that says "to be continued".
Imagine what our Life Story Map must look like. Imagine all those interesting connections. Suddenly it is not MY story but the Story of something much larger. Really cool!
Clay hardens by immobility – men's minds by standing pat. Both lose the power to take new impressions. (Pinchot 1910: 138)